Dating and Relationships in a different culture

A new life a new love. I have seen many foreign men and women in Europe, the Philippines, and Mexico in search of true love.  I have spoken to many who succeeded in finding love, and I have spoken many who were left alone, broken-hearted and even robbed of their money and homes. I have had so-called  “cross-cultural relationships” and even a long-distance relationship,  myself.

There are different categories, for those that look for specific international dating advice: 

Each article comes with “tags” underneath the article that will lead to more specific articles in the category. 

The articles below are all articles, not split up in a category but shown by publication date.

All the articles are written from experience, talks with others and from the knowledge from my education and work as a coach.

Remember: Dating is just a meeting between two people!



The Latest Articles

I ghosted my boyfriend

The moment I stopped investing in you

When I broke up with you I was hurt, I was in great pain. You broke my trust knowing that I had trust issues and although you promised me to be different, and that we would be different, you willingly ...
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I broke up with him because he had another Girlfriend

When you discover that your boyfriend had another girlfriend your world kind of crumbles. Especially when you had the exclusive and monogamous talk en he promises you a future together. Let me share my story with you, for you have ...
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Dealing with breakup after infidelity is much harder

Every breakup is hard, you go through different stages of grief and pain before you can heal and leave things behind you. But recovering from a breakup with a person that was never yours, to begin with, is even harder ...
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no integrity dating

I dated a man with no integrity

Noun: Integrity ( in·teg·ri·ty /inˈteɡrədē ) the quality of being honest and having strong moral principles; moral uprightness. "he is known to be a man of integrity" Similar: honesty, uprightness, probity, rectitude, honour, good character, principle(s), ethics, morals Opposite: dishonesty ...
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The best way to break up with a Facebook cheating partner

When you are in a monogamous relationship with a partner and boundaries are violated, agreements and promises broken you have a choice. You can either forgive and hope for the best, or you can walk out. My rules for relationships ...
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boyfriend type

My boyfriend told me I am not his preferred body type

We all know men have a body type. Being visual creatures I know not one man that does not follow a few "hot women" on Facebook or Instagram only to like her photos and stare at her lines and curves ...
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Mexican Macho and emotions

How do you deal with Mexican Machismo men?

Mexican men are raised not to feel, to be stoic, strong and reserved. To hide their feelings and emotions. Add to that what the media says about men and stereotyping of the male species. You find yourself at a real ...
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be willing to let him go

If you love yourself, you should be ready to let him go.

Empowerment for women in love. There is a balance that is easily lost in the eagerness to please a man in order to keep him and our self-confidence in which we can find a willingness to let him go if ...
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My first hand tips on dating Mexican Men

With Facebook Dating being rolled out over Mexico lately, the dating scene has a whole new platform to enjoy getting to know Mexican men. But like Tinder, it is kind of superficial. Most Mexicans don't even have a photo of ...
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Dating in Mexico, you do need WhatsApp

Mexican people spent so much time on WhatsApp, it is their prime communication app over Messenger and SMS. I was not so much into WhatsApp. Actually, I dislike it. I prefer messenger, but under the pressure of the county’s habits, ...
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