Relationship tips

A new life a new love. I have seen many foreign men and women in Europe, the Philippines, and Mexico in search of true love.  I have spoken to many who succeeded in finding love, and I have spoken many who were left alone, broken-hearted and even robbed of their money and homes. I have had so-called  “cross-cultural relationships” and even a long-distance relationship,  myself.

There are different categories, for those that look for specific international dating advice: 

Each article comes with “tags” underneath the article that will lead to more specific articles in the category. 

The articles below are all articles, not split up in a category but shown by publication date.

All the articles are written from experience, talks with others and from the knowledge from my education and work as a coach.

Remember: Dating is just a meeting between two people!



The Latest Articles

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Is it okey when my Filipino Boyfriend asks for Money?

Today in Readers Ask Questions a question from a Chinese woman living abroad. she is dating a Filipino also living abroad. Although he has a good income, on a regularly base he asks financial support from me. Is that okay ...
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Breaking up with my Filipino boyfriend

People on Facebook ask me in messenger whether I’m okay or not. Since I announced a little time out on Facebook. I’m okay. I have been better. I broke up with my Filipino boyfriend and I do not want to ...
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The Difference between Filipino and Western Men

At first glance, the difference between Filipino and Western men is easy, to sum up. Filipino men are smaller, slender and their dark appearance makes them stand out among the Western men, which are tall with fair skin and they ...
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When to let go in a relationship, or take some distance?

When is it time to step back from a relationship and take some distance? Or even say goodbye? How to define whether or not you should continue or let go? Do you need to solve relationship problems or accept that ...
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Dating a man with a special need child

When I lived in the Philippines I dated a man with a child with multiple disabilities. My now ex-boyfriend lost his wife just over a year ago when we met and was left behind with an 8-year-old girl.  A special-need ...
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Are white women attracted to Asian Guys

In Readers Ask Questions today a question from a Filipino living in Canada. He approached me through Facebook messenger: Hi JC! I was wondering if I could ask you some very random questions... I think you're the best to ask ...
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How to keep a Filipino man happy? 5 Firsthand Tips

When you are in a cross-cultural relationship you might have the feeling you are grasping at straws when it comes to understanding your partner's needs. Some of those needs are culturally influenced, others are plain male needs, no problem with ...
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Filipino men and love

I was a little prejudice about Filipino men, courtship, and love. Starting off with a very bad example of how courtship in the Philippines happens I was reluctant to take another step. Lucky for me someone else took the step ...
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Sex with a Filipino man

The girls on my Facebook and on my YouTube Channel know I have been dating and I do get a lot of questions about my sex life. Now I do like to keep some parts of my life private. So ...
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Sex and Travel, how do I as a solo female traveler stay safe

Exotic men, strange places, incognito status, maybe even, starry nights and a full moon….all ingredients for a romantic night are there when you travel. Travel takes you out of your comfort zone and right into your daredevil state of mind ...
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