Red flags when dating in Mexico
I have had my share of red flags, and you would think that I am wiser with the years and the experiences. But dating in a different culture is not always so clear when it comes to red flags. Sometimes…
5 signs a person is over you after breakup that are universal
When you are dating in a different culture you have to face the cultural differences between you and your date or loved one. And when the relationship continues this does not become more easy, just more known. You get more…
Why closure talks are not for strong people
We all are familiar with the term “Closure talk”, without that there is no closure and we struggle, something like that. And the internet makes us believe that they are healing and necessary and that healing from a breakup without…
My ex is pursuing me to get me back
I think I am in a position many women that are heartbroken dream about. I have my ex pursuing me to get me back. So many websites are dedicated to this subject and women follow a hopeless cause of getting…
My Boyfriend called me a snob
I checked and double-checked the word he used, and he confirmed the synonyms. That was what he meant when he used the word. And I was in shock. For me being called a snob is like an insult. In my…
Does your relationship have double standards?
Are you wondering if your relationship has double standards? Do you feel like you are treated unfairly by your partner? Do you feel like you cannot do what you want while your partner seems to do anything they want? If…
I date someone who doesn’t speak my language
Dating across language barriers is a challenge. Dating across language barriers and also long-distance is even worse. When you are in love you want to share and spent time with someone. Still, it is do-able and possible to be happy…
Dating-stories from around the world
In the past five years of my travels I have been dating on and off, depending on my mood, my need for company and, to be honest, my sex drive. It has been funny, sweet, hilarious, and frustrating. Because of…
Nomad lifestyle and love relationships
The subtitle of this article is “Rethinking relationships” I am 59, a nomad, always standing out in a crowd in the countries I date, yet I cannot find what I am looking for. How is that possible? Well, because I…
How to hurt a narcissist’s ego?
First a few explanations about this article. I do not usually write about dating a person with a personality disorder because it is my strong belief that we sometimes are too eager to judge a person or diagnose them from…
Should I ask my Ex if he is Happy?
To be honest: I struggle. I can pretend I am not but I do. I have just broken up with my Mexican boyfriend and although it was not a long relationship it was an intense one. And since I am…
Red Flags and Intuition during dating
I have learned a hard lesson on my first serious dating attempt in Mexico. And although I have proven that my gut feeling still works and I got out in time, I do feel a bit ashamed about ignoring Red…
Get over you cheating ex fast with these 10 steps
A breakup hurts, even if you are the dumper. I walked out on my plus 3 months boyfriend after I discovered he had another relationship he seemed very bonded in and I was the new girl and he didn’t end…
Relationships, Social Media Behaviour and Red Flags
By now I should be old and experienced enough to recognize a man that does not open his heart for you and has always one foot out of the door. I am sad to say that sometimes you meet a…
Why I refused a Membership to my ex his Harem
My now ex-boyfriend was like a hoarder. He liked collecting things and find comfort out of it. He collected women. Lots of women and they all boosted his ego on a daily base. He had women all over the country, and…
The moment I stopped investing in you
When I broke up with you I was hurt, I was in great pain. You broke my trust knowing that I had trust issues and although you promised me to be different, and that we would be different, you willingly…
